The day you start being busy with your life & focusing all your energy on building your future you will understand that people didn’t distance themselves from you!
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They’re are just busy fixing their lives and getting their lives together, it’s OK not to talk to people for days, it’s OK not to see people for days also..
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THERE’S simply no need to, maintain, nurse and nurture FRIENDSHIPS. Your Life and Future Comes 1st..
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As long as you know your place in their lives and where you stand with them YOU ARE GOOD!
If you wish to live long, don’t joke with this short sentence, l am sorry. Do you know how many people had gone to early graves because they had ignored or neglected the therapeutic power of l am sorry.
A single sorry can stop a war, and prevent millions of people from perishing.
Most of the troubles in homes are heightened because wives are too big to say l am sorry to their husbands and you can trust the ego the husbands to say the same thing to their wives.
Quarrels linger between friends because no part wants to say l am sorry. Each says or asks why should l be the first to say l am sorry. He or she will beat his or her chest and utter the ego phrase, a whole me!.
Ladies and gentlemen welcome to the world where to say lam sorry is a hard nut to crack while curses are easily unleashed.
Welcome to the world where people refer to a person who says l am sorry in the midst of a rift as a weaker sex, one who is not mature enough or one who is foolish.
Welcome to Africa where saying l am sorry is tough than forcing a donkey through a needle hole.
All of us are victims of this discussion, we have lost assets, money even lives because of avoidance of this cheap short sentence, l am sorry . It simply cost a simple breath of speech.
Have you ever wondered why domestic violence is less in western countries? It’s simply because they understand the efficiency of the phrase l am sorry .
Husbands say it to their wives and children, wives do the same, life goes on.
This is a piece of encouragement, cultivate a culture of saying l am sorry. It is difficult but easily available and affordable. Take away your ego enjoy life.
I am sorry if you didn’t like this teaching.
Be blessed abundantly.
You know you can be hated by your aunt who’s way older than you..!
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This ‘Blood is Thicker Than Water’ phrase is only real when we’re talking about the actual liquids. Family can be the most toxic people in your life, the only people that can ever wish you well from the bottom of their hearts with no envy is the woman that gave birth to you.
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You’re only cute when you’re wearing nappies, not in a graduation gown or in the office.