Trust, Respect and Communication are the foundation of a healthy relationship..💖
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2⃣Don’t change yourself. Find someone who loves you just the way you are, NOT someone who wants you to be who they want you to be..💝
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3⃣If you are still going back to the one who hurts you, who breaks you, remember it’s not love, it’s the addiction of a lost feeling

It is never too late to be what you might have been.

WAKE UP PARENTS*

Years back, *poor illiterate parents* produced
🔹Doctors,
🔹Engineers,
🔹 Scientists,
🔹 Accountants,
🔹 Lawyers,
🔹 Architects,
🔹 Professors.., Teachers , Nurses, etc whom I will refer to as *Group ‘A’*.

These *Group ‘A’* Children struggled on their own after Primary 6 or Grade 12, to become notable personalities. Most of them
👉🏾trekked to school *barefooted*
👉🏾went to farms
👉🏾fetched water and firewood
👉🏾cared for domesticated animals
👉🏾did some work including trading after school to survive.

Now Group ‘A’ ,who have now become Parents themselves are *producing Group ‘B’ Children*
These group B children are
🔹pampered
🔹 helped in their homeworks or home assignments from nursery school through secondary schools to higher institutions.
🔹chauffeur driven to very expensive schools or are sent abroad to study.
🔹they can watch movies from morning till dawn after school.
🔹 they are treated like baby kings and queens.
🔹they don’t do any household chores.
🔹Food is put on the table for them,
🔹their plates are removed and washed by parents or house maids.
🔹They are given expensive cars and clothes,
🔹not forgetting *big pocket money to be wasted* !!!.
🔹Their parents help them in doing their assignments.
🤔 In spite of all these, only few can *speak* or *write* correctly. 😏

🤔Group ‘A’ Parents cared for their own *parents* and *children*, Group ‘B’,their Children are still *struggling to find their feet at age 30+*.‼
🤔They find it difficult to do things on their own because they are used to being helped to think and doing things by Group ‘A’. So they can’t help themselves, their parents or the society. THEY ABANDON THEIR PARENTS IN THEIR BID TO ACQUIRE THE WORLD

😴 *Where do you belong*❓
🏮Reduce the pampering and the unnecessary help you offer your children.
🏮 Let your children *grow in wisdom, intelligence and strength*.
🏮Let them face the truth and the realities of life. Teach them to grow to become *independent adults.* Teach them to
👉🏾fear God,
👉🏾respect others and
👉🏾develop confidence in themselves.
🤔Parents, discipline your children to become disciplined adults, *useful* and not *useless.*

Sometimes you put walls up not to keep people out,
but to see who cares enough to break them down.

1⃣. Sometimes you just need to relax and trust that things will work out. Let go a little and let life happen.
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2⃣. Apologizing doesn’t always mean you’re wrong and the other person is right. It means you value your relationship more than your ego.
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3⃣. Not everyone you lose is a loss.
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4⃣. Don’t waste your energy on negative thinking. Focus more on what makes you happy.
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5⃣. Never give up on something you really want. Its difficult to wait, but worse to regret.
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6⃣. Don’t change for anyone. People will love you for who you are, or you don’t need them in your life.
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7⃣. When someone walks out of your life, let them. They are just making more room for someone better to walk in.

I think its time I let go of the past, live in the present,
and look forward to the future.

Just because things are not good now does not mean
they will be that way forever.

Don’t lead someone on. If you like someone,
then tell them.
If you just want to be friends,
then don’t make them think they have a chance.