A girl by name Deepa went to school in the neighbouring village where she wasn’t known well.

For three weeks, she came to school late and every time the teacher punished her.

On the fourth week, Deepa didn’t attend school at all and many thought she had GIVEN UP on school due to the everyday punishment.

However, Deepa reported again on fifth week and this time she came earlier than everybody.

When the teacher came to class, Deepa was punished for not attending school the previous week but the teacher was also kind enough to commend her for coming early that day, stating that the punishments had finally yielded some results.

Just then, Deepa asked if she could say something and the teacher gave her permission.

She started :

” I’ve been raised up by a single mother without a brother or a sister. Five weeks ago, my mother fell ill and was hospitalized. The three weeks I came late, I had to prepare something for her every morning and pass by the hospital to deliver the same. Unfortunately, my mother passed away last week and that’s the reason I didn’t come to school. We buried her last Friday. Today I came early since I didn’t have to prepare anything or even pass by the hospital. And now that she is gone, I will always be here early”

As she sat down, no one in the whole class was able to hold their tears, the teacher was not spared either.

Lesson:

How many times do we judge others for things we know not ?

We ask questions like :

– Why you are not getting married?
– Why you are not having kids ?
– When will you find a job ?
– When will you buy a car?
– When will you build a house?
etc….

Do we attempt to understand their situations or we just judge from the case scenarios

Some situations are not relative and what we think could be very far from the truth.

Don’t assume you know what others go through or that people move in the same pace or direction as you.

Life is far from that..

Just be kind enough to love one another as God has commanded, take time and kindly find out why your friend is not phoning, why your messages are not being replied promptly, why someone is missing in our midst as a colleague, friend, brother or sister even why someone is always late.

Be kind, always…… Be nice to others.

Most black women are not taught self love, most of us had to go so much pain to finally love our selves selflessly .
We are taught to take a bath two to three times a day, but not for us to feel beautiful, but for us to attract men. We are taught to cook , but not for us to eat healthy but for us to feed a man. We are taught to clean, but not for us to live in a clean place, but for us to prove ourselves to men! It’s sad, when all ur taught by people you trust, is to use your body Nd all u can do, to make a somebody happy ! Black women nd men, let’s break the circle! Teach your daughters to love themselves more

coins always make a sound but the currency notes are always silent,
So when ur value increases, keep urself calm and silent

The smaller your circle is, the less you gotta deal with fake people

We all deserve happiness. That’s why it’s important to surround yourself with positive people who support you. Choose people who bring out the best in you, not people who bring drama and negativity into your life.