When the devil wants to destroy you he uses your friends. And when God wants to promote you He uses your enemies. If it wasn’t because of our friends our enemies wouldn’t know our secrets. In life we need to be more careful about friends more than enemies. Most rats die with food in their mouths thinking someone is feeding them yet someone is killing them in form of feeding them. There are friends who help you in life so that it will be easy for them to destroy you later. Abraham went on a journey with Lot. God was silent until they separated then He spoke to Abraham again. At times its the friends around you that push God away from you. Check your friends before they push you into destruction. Be wise*_

This is the most serious ADVICE in 2019

1•The only woman who knows where his
husband is every time, is a widow.

2•Intelligence is like underwear,you need to
have it but not necessary to show it off.

3•No girl is single. You either snatch her from
another man or share her with another. Being
the greatest shareholder is the key here.

4•Life is the most difficult exam. Everyone is
trying to copy the other not realizing that
everyone has a different question paper.

5•A naked man is never afraid of pick-pocketing.

6•Never leave the one you love for the one you
like because the one you like will leave you for
the one they love.

7•Do the do’s before the do does you.

8•A farmer who plants corn by the roadside and
a man who marries a beautiful woman are in
the same problem.

9•Be good to people until you make a million,
after that they will be good to you.

Life is like riding a bicycle. To keep your
balance, you must keep moving.

The Law of the Seed
Have a look at an apple tree. There might be five hundred apples on the tree, and each apple has ten to twelve seeds. Now that’s a lot of seeds!
We might ask, “Why would you need so many seeds to grow just a few more apple trees?”
Nature has something to teach us here. It’s telling us: “Not all seeds grow. In life, most seeds never grow. So if you really want to make something happen, you had better try more than once.”
This means…
You’ll attend twenty interviews to get one job.
You’ll interview forty people to find one good employee.
You’ll talk to fifty people to sell one house, one car, one vacuum cleaner, one insurance policy, or a new business idea.
You might meet a hundred people just to find that one special friend.
When we understand the “Law of the Seed”, we don’t get so disappointed. We stop feeling like victims. We learn how to deal with things that happen to us.
Laws of nature are not things to take personally. We just need to understand them – and work with them.
When things seem beyond our control, here are a few things NOT to do…
Do not focus on how the world OUGHT to be.
Do not make rules for how others OUGHT to behave.
Such thoughts only bring us spiralling down into more unhappiness.
Let’s say you expect that…
Friends OUGHT to return favours.
People OUGHT to appreciate us.
Planes OUGHT to arrive on time.
Everyone OUGHT to be honest.
Our husband or best friend OUGHT to remember our birthday.
These expectations may sound reasonable. But often, these things don’t happen! So we end up frustrated and disappointed.
Here is a better strategy…
Demand less, and convert expectations into intentions. For everything that is beyond our control, we can tell ourselves…
“I would prefer if this happens, but if that happens, it is okay too!”
We prefer that people are polite, but when they are rude, it doesn’t ruin our day.
We prefer sunshine, but if it rains, it is ok too!
We don’t take things personally.
Instead we start planting seeds (thoughts, words and actions) to create the inner and outer spaces we really want.
It’s not what happens to us that determines our happiness. It is how we think about and respond to what happens that makes all the difference.
Remember the Law of the Seed…
The secret of success is to fail more often. And to plant more seeds. From all these seeds, some are sure to grow into mighty big trees!

Jacob looked at Joseph and saw
a good son!
The ten brothers looked at Joseph and saw
a useless dreamer!
The travellers looked at Joseph and saw
a slave!!
Potiphar looked at Joseph and saw
a fine servant!!
Potiphar’s wife looked at Joseph and saw
a potential boyfriend!
The prison officers saw in Joseph a prisoner!
How wrong were all of them!!
God looked at Joseph and saw
a Prime Minister of Egypt in waiting!!
Don’t be discouraged by what people see in you!!
Be encouraged by what God sees in You!!
Never underrate the person next to you because you never know what the Lord has deposited in that person.
Your maid may be a Chief Executive Officer in waiting for a company which shall employ your child.
Your garden-boy may be a president in waiting.
(Remember David got the anointing of becoming a King while he was a simple child herding sheep.
Esther was a simple orphaned girl yet she was a Queen in waiting).
Let’s share God’s love and make the world a better place to live. Show that love by sharing this message with those you love.
IT DOESN’T MATTER HOW PEOPLE SEE YOU, IT MATTERS HOW GOD SEES YOU.

Live right now, just be yourself. It doesn’t matter if it’s good enough for someone else.💢💝
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2⃣. 💚💢Be unique, Be kind, Be humble, Be free, Be the person you were meant to be…. Then let your light shine for all to see.💢❤
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3⃣. 💙💢Sometimes you have to follow your heart & not worry about what others think.

You may not be where you want to be in life and you may not have all the things you want, But you have the one thing that matters most LIFE and with life anything is possible.💛

You cannot treat people like trash and worship God at the same time
In the absence of Love God is not present.

Let them hate me for This…
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Problem ka rona Matjita We don’t appreciate our Girlfriends, We don’t care, We are not there, We don’t Value them. We only care and see gore ba important fa ba tsamaile.
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When they are with us, We don’t see gore they deserve us and our time. We don’t care gore ba ntse jwang,We don’t care gore Tsatsi la Bona Le jwang Or ba robetse jang.
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We only check them Fela when We want to eat them.. We only act like We care when they are with us opening their legs. :😭😭
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When We are done, We careless and give them less attention. :😭
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We Spend more time le ditsala tsa rona more then them, We praise Banyana ba bangwe more then our Girlfriends. We make Other Boyfriends Girlfriends feel loved and Special re lebala ka Banyana Ba rona.
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We disrespect them re kgatlhisa ditsala,We beat them showing Batho, Pulling them ka Meriri infront of People acting tough.. Hurting their feelings now and then. :
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Rona Matjita ra Tlhanya😑😑
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When your Girlfriend needs you ga oyo, when she wants to text with you ga oyo, you give Her empty promises always, you Turn Her down, you make Her feel unwanted,you make Her feel like she’s not good enough for wena even when she tries so hard to show you gore wao rata Because wena gaona nako le ene onale nako le Banyana Ba Batho.
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You even feel bad showing Off your Girlfriend because she’s “random”..Mare when You want Her at Night she’s not “Random”..from emoticon
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Matjita ra Flopa and I know they will hate me for saying this Mare I don’t care, Le Kanna lang Nnja Ka meno..😌

In a relationship you must pull your weight! If your man spoils you spoil him right back. If he hasn’t called to check on you, please call to check up on him. You won’t die 😏. Love and pride cannot coexist. Females expect too much and do so little 😳

You cannot treat people like trash and worship God at the same time.
In the absence of Love God is not present

Dear men,
I am not going to ask you to stop or not try
beating your wife for any reason. The time
for that cheap sermon is over.
But I’m going to ask you to join your wife in
the labour room whenever it is time to give
birth to those babies you claim father to.
Ask the doctors to let you in, I did so in my
own time, and my request was granted for
the good reasons of it.
Stand like the man of the house you always
claimed to be, and watch her push a human
being out from that tiny hole.
Watch her go through that pain just to
crown you “daddy somebody.”
Whether by CS or push delivery, just avail
yourself…
Then come back and repeat those
disrespectful behaviours of yours.
Come back and tell her that a girl child is not
worth a male child.
Come back and refuse to provide her needs.
Come back and not assist her with some
house chores.
Come back and raise your hand on her
because you are the man of the house…
Man of the house… Receive sense in the
name of whatever you worship.

Instead of wishing you were someone else, be proud of who you are. You never know who was looking at you wishing they were you.🌹

2⃣. 🌸Anger won’t make your problems easier. Tears won’t bring back what is gone. But a smile, and gratitude will make you stronger.🌸

3⃣. 🌺Don’t start because it’s easy. Start because it’s worth trying. Don’t stop because it’s hard. Stop because you’ve tried your best.🌺