You cannot treat people like trash and worship God at the same time.
In the absence of Love God is not present

Dear men,
I am not going to ask you to stop or not try
beating your wife for any reason. The time
for that cheap sermon is over.
But I’m going to ask you to join your wife in
the labour room whenever it is time to give
birth to those babies you claim father to.
Ask the doctors to let you in, I did so in my
own time, and my request was granted for
the good reasons of it.
Stand like the man of the house you always
claimed to be, and watch her push a human
being out from that tiny hole.
Watch her go through that pain just to
crown you “daddy somebody.”
Whether by CS or push delivery, just avail
yourself…
Then come back and repeat those
disrespectful behaviours of yours.
Come back and tell her that a girl child is not
worth a male child.
Come back and refuse to provide her needs.
Come back and not assist her with some
house chores.
Come back and raise your hand on her
because you are the man of the house…
Man of the house… Receive sense in the
name of whatever you worship.